{"id":1941,"date":"2022-10-12T15:43:36","date_gmt":"2022-10-12T02:43:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/amerinzpodcast.com\/?p=1941"},"modified":"2022-10-12T15:43:36","modified_gmt":"2022-10-12T02:43:36","slug":"amerinz-371-make-believe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/amerinzpodcast.com\/?p=1941","title":{"rendered":"AmeriNZ 371 \u2013 Make believe"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/amerinzpodcast.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/AmeriNZ_Podcast_1400x1400-2016.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1739\" src=\"http:\/\/amerinzpodcast.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/AmeriNZ_Podcast_1400x1400-2016-150x150.png\" alt=\"amerinz_podcast_1400x1400-2016\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"http:\/\/amerinzpodcast.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/AmeriNZ_Podcast_1400x1400-2016-150x150.png 150w, http:\/\/amerinzpodcast.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/AmeriNZ_Podcast_1400x1400-2016-300x300.png 300w, http:\/\/amerinzpodcast.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/AmeriNZ_Podcast_1400x1400-2016-768x768.png 768w, http:\/\/amerinzpodcast.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/AmeriNZ_Podcast_1400x1400-2016-1024x1024.png 1024w, http:\/\/amerinzpodcast.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/AmeriNZ_Podcast_1400x1400-2016.png 1400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a>This episode won\u2019t be for everyone: In response to a voice message, I talk about my grief journey, including how it relates to something I talked about last time. However, I also talk about things I haven\u2019t talked about very much (or at all), and some folk may find it confronting. Look after yourself and skip this episode if you need to.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll be back at the end of the week with an episode about New Zealand\u2019s recent local elections.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s a bit of static in parts of this episode, and I thought about re-recording, but decided to just go with it (it wasn\u2019t as bad as one I DID re-record).<\/p>\n<p>Be sure to Like the <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/amerinz\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">AmeriNZ Facebook Page<\/a><\/strong> for all things AmeriNZ.<\/p>\n<p><b>Links for this episode<\/b><br \/>\n<b><a href=\"https:\/\/amerinz.blogspot.com\/2022\/09\/guilt-trap.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201dGuilt trap\u201d<\/a><\/b> \u2013 My blog post on dealing with so much stuff.<br \/>\n<b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/widows-walk\/202208\/rewiring-the-brain-in-grief\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201cRewiring the Brain in Grief\u201d<\/a><\/b> \u2013 By Sophia Dembling, 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